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Tuesday, May 10, 2011

humility, beth hanna, and the sometimes not so cool me.

So I know this blog is supposed to be about Korea and stuff, but since I'm not there I have nothing to really write about...however, this post will eventually get to something Korean-ish so hang with me:)
One of my best friend's names is Beth Hanna. Chances are you know her but maybe not. If you don't you should. But I'm getting off topic. Beth played volleyball at PLU for the past 4 years and I was her coach for three of those years, not that I can take credit for any of her success but I still had to put that in there. Haha. ANYWAYS. She is pretty much one of the most talented volleyball players I have ever seen play the game. Even if you don't know anything about volleyball you would have to agree after seeing her play. She was recruited by some big time universities in high school but chose PLU because of the uniqueness of our program and the smaller size of the school. And she dominated D3 volleyball for four years. Her freshman year she was freshman of the year for the entire country in D3 and a first team all-american. Every year since she's pretty much won about every award there is to win. You're probably wondering why I'm telling you this because she's obviously successful and everyone knows about it. The thing though is that she's way different. She's so atypical compared to athletes today (watching the Lakers the other night made me want to barf...they are such unsportsmanlike dingles. sorry Bri) and not only is she sort of humble, she's hands down the most humble person I've ever met in my life. For reals. And even though I'm not an "athlete" anymore, her humility is such an example that it continues to totally level me when I need it.

Like yesterday.

Im at this conference right now for the International Baccalaureate which is the type of school that I'll be teaching at in Korea next year. Sidenote: if you don't know anything about IB schools and their curriculum look it up. It's amazing. I definitely think the US should let IB take over all schools and curriculums because they actually have the right idea about what education should look like. But anyways, I came out here assuming that there would be a ton of other people from schools outside of the US. But then I forgot that everyone else is in school still and that most people who teach at an international school outside of the US aren't going to fly back here for a conference when they could go to one in their own country. Doi. So everyone here is from Colorado, Michigan, Florida, Nebraska, etc. and when asked to share where I teach the entire conference did one of those cool "no way" gasps when I said I taught in Korea. So the first two days I literally had almost every person come talk to me during breaks and I actually got sick of telling the story of how I taught in a public school last year and then coached volleyball at TCIS and eventually got hired on and that's why I have a 5 month vacation. But I did start to feel really cool. Even being home the last month has been a lot of the same with people wanting to know everything and me feeling kind of neato because I feel cool. Then last night I had a moment where I kind of came to and realized that I'm really not all that cool. At all. And even though I'm sure people don't detect the "I'm cool because I live in Korea" attitude that has crept up, it still doesn't make it ok. Sure, picking up and moving to a foreign country, especially one in Asia is kind of nuts. Really nuts. But nothing to be proud of by any means. If anything, it in itself is such a humbling experience. I started to remember last night some of the times during my first two months there when I was so totally defeated at times. So I guess I just have to keep that in mind and remember what the last year-ish was like...and why I really am staying in Korea, which is to teach at an amazing school and minister to amazing kids.

So I'm thankful for that. And I'm also so thankful for humble friends.

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

just a little blurb about some pretty amazing people...

So, about a year ago I was walking around in Daecheon beach in Korea which is about an hour from Daejeon when my friend Laura and I ran into a group of foreigners. They started talking to us (which in itself is amazing because a lot of westerners in Korea think they're too cool to say hi to other westerners in Korea) and after talking to a girl in their group for a couple of minutes we realized that we basically knew each other because I went to college with her brother, had met two of her sisters in Puyallup through Younglife, and that we pretty much knew all of the same people. Even a year later, the craziness of how small the world is and how God connects people even when it's on the very opposite side of the world still blows my mind. Bethany was visiting Daecheon as well and it turned out that she only lived about 30 minutes outside of my city, so to have her and her boyfriend Jake just 30 minutes away this last year was so stinking amazing. We would take the bus to see each other every month or so and every time we got together we would talk about how nuts it was to meet in Korea of all places. Her sister, Lacey, who I had met in Puyallup before leaving for Korea came out to surprise Bethany for Christmas so the four of us had our first Christmas away from home together.

Well, Jake is still in Korea until September but Bethany's contract ended around the same time that I came back from Thailand so the other day her, Lacey, and I got to hang out in America together for the first time! It's pretty wild when you've only been in a place like Korea together because to be at home all of a sudden is such a surreal thing. The bummer news though is that I wont be seeing either of them for a year (unless I visit them which I'm gonna make happen) because 2 days after hanging out with them they MOVED TO ISTANBUL! So awesome. They'll both be working as an Au Pair, which is pretty much a nanny although I thought it was some sort of fancy pants pastry, for different families in Turkey. Bethany was only in the states for about a month before taking off again so I've just been thinking about them a lot as they head off on this new journey. As I've learned in the past year, leaving everything behind and moving to a random place like Korea or Turkey requires a lot of faith and trust, but to be able to see how God works during those times is a pretty amazing thing. So for Bethany to be able to do that in Korea one year and Turkey the next really blows my mind and makes me so proud of her faith that the Lord is really in control and has some awesome plans for us. If you want to read about their travels you can go to Bethany's blog http://www.travelblog.org/Bloggers/bethany-grace/ or find it on the side of my blog!